Fear refers to an emotion or feeling induced by perceived danger or threat of danger, which yields a physiological change that, subsequently, evokes a behavioural response. But why do so many people like to be scared — in other words, to feel fear?
The Safety Net
When we get scared, our bodies will go into fight, flight, or freeze mode. Our bodies calm, and many of us subsequently enjoy the experience. Thus, many of us are actually seeking “controlled” fear and suspense because we know we are safe.
Closeness with Others
Given that being frightened releases a biochemical flood that can yield a pleasurable outcome, we often misattribute this arousal (i.e. the pleasurable outcomes of fear) to the individual with whom we’re spending that time.
Curiosity
The fear of the unknown is one of the most natural and instinctive fears that we have — and it is also one of the oldest curiosities.
Our world is easier to engage with when things make sense to us; and so, some may choose to engage further with ‘the unknown’ in order to better make sense of the situation.
The Flood
When we get scared, we experience a rush of adrenaline and a release of endorphins and dopamine. The biochemical rush can result in a pleasure-filled, opioid-like sense of euphoria.
Self-Satisfaction
Some people enjoy “pushing the envelope,” seeking thrills, and seeing how much fear can be tolerated. If they are able to endure the barrage of anxiety, suspense, and fear, a great sense of self-satisfaction is often experienced.
