In ‘How to Stop Feeling Like Sh*t,’ Andrea Owen provides practical solutions to overcome 14 habits that inhibit personal happiness and fulfillment. This book will help you identify these destructive behaviors and provide actionable insights to help you overcome them, fostering a more positive and joyful life.
Recognize Negative Self-Talk
One of the first steps to personal growth is to recognize negative self-talk and its impact on your well-being.
Become aware of the stories you tell yourself, how they hinder your progress, and work on replacing them with positive affirmations.
Let Go of Control
Trying to control everything can lead to anxiety and exhaustion.
Learn to differentiate between what you can control and what you cannot, and develop coping strategies for dealing with uncertainty.
Accept Responsibility for Your Life
Embrace the power of personal responsibility for your circumstances and actions.
By taking control of your life, you will be able to make positive changes, build resilience, and move forward with purpose.
Cultivate Gratitude and Positive Mindset
Fostering a habit of gratitude and developing a positive mindset can have tremendous effects on your happiness and well-being.
Practice gratitude daily and focus on the positive aspects of your life, rather than dwelling on negativity.
Overcome Comparison and Jealousy
Comparison is known as the thief of joy.
Instead of focusing on what others have or what they’ve achieved, redirect your energy towards personal growth and celebrate your own accomplishments.
Accept Compliments Gracefully
Many people struggle to accept compliments, often downplaying or rejecting them.
Learn to accept compliments gracefully, as it not only demonstrates self-respect but also allows you to cultivate a positive self-image.
Manage People-Pleasing Tendencies
Being a people-pleaser can be harmful to self-esteem and limit personal growth.
Learn to establish boundaries, prioritize self-care, and say no when necessary, enabling you to live an authentic life true to yourself.
Quiet the Inner Critic
An overly critical inner voice can keep you trapped in a cycle of self-doubt and criticism.
Acknowledge the presence of this inner critic and develop techniques to quiet it, fostering a more supportive and encouraging mindset.
Embrace Vulnerability
Vulnerability is often perceived as a weakness, but it is actually a strength.
Embracing vulnerability allows you to connect with others on a deeper level and make authentic connections, which leads to greater emotional well-being.
Break Free from Perfectionism
Perfectionism is a self-defeating habit, causing stress, anxiety, and feelings of inadequacy.
Recognize the unrealistic expectations you set for yourself and learn to appreciate your efforts, even if the outcome is not perfect.
