In this insightful podcast, strategic communications lecturer Matt Abrahams shares valuable techniques and behaviors that can make anyone proficient at the art of small talk.
From cocktail parties to networking events, and holiday dinner-table conversations, these tips are designed to help you engage in meaningful exchanges and foster connections.
The Importance of Small Talk
Small talk is an essential communication tool that enables connection, learning, and growth.
It’s a collaborative effort, much like a game of hacky sack, where everyone contributes to keep the conversation flowing.
This reframing of small talk makes it less intimidating and more enjoyable.
Setting Appropriate Goals
It’s crucial to set appropriate goals for small talk.
Instead of trying to be interesting, aim to be interested in the conversation and the other person.
This approach reduces anxiety and shifts the focus from being judged to being present and engaged in the conversation.
Responding Appropriately
Taking time to respond appropriately, rather than quickly, is a sign of competence.
Techniques like paraphrasing not only ensure understanding but also validate the other person’s points and slows down the conversation, allowing for thoughtful responses.
