This episode delves into the psychology of failure and success, as explored by performance psychologist Gio Valiante.
Drawing from his extensive experience with top athletes and entrepreneurs, Valiante discusses the importance of shifting from an ego orientation to a mastery orientation, the role of intrinsic motivation, and the necessity of knowing when to cut losses and move on.
He also sheds light on common misconceptions about success and failure.
Intrinsic Motivation vs External Recognition
Intrinsic motivation, or a genuine passion for what one does, should ideally precede the pursuit of external recognition.
When the desire for praise and recognition comes first, it can lead to problems, whereas a strong intrinsic motivation can foster resilience, even in the absence of immediate external rewards.
The Importance of Correcting Reactions to Failure
Correcting reactions to failure and being mindful of who influences your decisions are critical to shifting back to a mastery orientation.
The Value of Early Failures
Early failures can be beneficial in recognizing real opportunities later in life.
They provide valuable lessons that can guide future decisions.
What I’m trying to do is shift people back to a Mastery orientation. The most important thing that you do believe it or not is you help people correct the reactions to failure and who they listen to. – Gio Valiante
