Motives drive behavior. Behind every behavior is a positive intention – this is one of the basic NLP presuppositions. The six step reframe technique is a powerful and underestimated NLP technique that helps us keep the ones that work even when times change and those responses may not be the most useful ones.
The Process
Identify a troubling behavior or response, something you would rather not do or feel
- Establish communication with the part creating the unwanted behavior
- Find the positive intention: recognize the difference between the parts intention and the way it is going about getting it
- Ask for help from your creative part to create three alternative ways to get the intended outcome
- Have the part evaluate these new choices
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Bandler and Grinder developed the six step reframe technique from their study of Milton Erickson (ideomotor signals) and Virginia Satir’s work with parts.
- Behind every behavior is a positive intention – this is one of the basic NLP presuppositions.
The Process
Identify a troubling behavior or response, something you would rather not do or feel
- Establish communication with the part creating the unwanted behavior
- Find the positive intention: recognize the difference between the parts intention and the way it is going about getting it
- Ask for help from your creative part to create three alternative ways to get the intended outcome
- Have the part evaluate these new choices
