Trick Mirror: Reflections on Self-Delusion by Jia Tolentino is a contemporary exploration of self, culture, and the internet age. Using a collection of essays, Tolentino delves into the complexities of the self-image in the modern era, challenging the reader to question their own perception and understanding of reality.

The Internet Era

The internet era has created a culture of constant self-performance.

We are constantly presenting versions of ourselves online, often curated to project an ideal image.

This has led to a culture of self-optimization, where we are always striving to improve and perfect ourselves.

The Echo Chamber Effect

The internet often acts as an echo chamber, reinforcing our existing beliefs and isolating us from differing perspectives.

This can limit our understanding and foster division.

The Myth of the Authentic Self

The concept of the ‘authentic self’ is often a myth.

We are constantly evolving and changing, and our ‘self’ is often a reflection of our environment and experiences.

The Pressure to Perform

The pressure to perform can be overwhelming, leading to stress and burnout.

This is a reflection of the culture of self-optimization, where we are always striving to meet unrealistic expectations.