Who to Fall in Love with First: 6 Ways to Love Yourself

Who to Fall in Love with First: 6 Ways to Love Yourself

Most of us are so busy waiting for someone to love us that we’ve forgotten about the one person we need to love first-ourselves. “Your task is not to seek for love, but to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.” ~Rumi

The People Who Were to Have Loved Us

When the love you’ve known has been physically harmful, emotionally painful, and psychologically scarring, how do you love another person?

Be kind to yourself

Learn to accept yourself, shortcomings and all, even if your family and previous partners may have berated you about your inadequacies

Be grateful

Rhonda Byrne, author of The Magic, shares a powerful way to change all of our relationships and our life

Feel the love within you and be that love

Spend more time focusing on self-love

Give yourself in service to others

When you think about kindness toward others and being love to others, you open the door to divine love.

Give yourself a break

You’re not perfect. No one is. Embrace your imperfections and excuse your bad days.

Embrace yourself

Practice moments of alone time and be aware of how you treat yourself.

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