Introversion is not a state of being. It’s an evolving journey that we all began long ago. How you navigate your own path is up to you. Here are the five phases of introversion and how you can see which one you’re in. Being an introvert is an evolving process.
Unaware
You don’t yet know you’re an introvert, yet you know you’re “different.”
- The longer we stay in this phase, the more damage we may suffer to our self-confidence and the harder it can be to move on.
Contentment
You now embrace your introversion and feel like your true self
- At peace alone, you are able to manage your energy levels and find joy in the simple things in life
- Put your well-being first, and carve out some energy-boosting alone time
- Be confident in who you are and understand that others benefit from hearing your perspective and feeling your warmth
Flourishing
Suddenly, dreams that seemed unattainable become feasible – and you not only champion your own introversion, but also that of others
- Many introverts, fueled by the power of our own strengths and often pent up ambitions, seek to put our personality to work for us.
Uninformed
Introverts are uninformed
- We have no one to guide us and not enough confidence to reach out and ask others
- Instead, we need to take the lead
- Find some good resources (books, websites, mentors, or therapists) to help you learn and grow
Remember, Introversion Is a Journey and Everyone Moves at Their Own Pace
Seek support among trusted family, friends, and mentors
- Recognize that you are wonderful
- Understand that you can chase your dreams
- Celebrate your differences
- The world needs you and your personality
Enlightenment: You finally “get” introversion and realize nothing is “wrong” with you
Everyone in the world is unique
- You have plenty of strengths that are just different from those of your extroverted friends
- Listen, plan, curiosity, creativity, measured consideration, and thoughtfulness
