The Delicate Messy Art of Ending Relationships

The Delicate Messy Art of Ending Relationships

Ending relationships is a delicate, messy art, fraught with emotional turmoil and intricate nuances. It's a journey that requires courage, empathy, and understanding. Let's delve into the complexities of this process, exploring the emotional landscape and offering guidance for those navigating these challenging waters.

I’ve just drafted a book called “Doubt: A Natural History; A User’s Guide,” much of it centered on the Serenity Prayer, a masterpiece of brief decision-making guidance, 26 words (Setting aside God) that corner us squarely with two of the three options we face in any frustrating situation.

Take it, leave it, try to change it

We can hedge, accepting, trying to change and leaving all at the same time

Taking it personally

Understanding the three-way serenity prayer and how it plays out in all relationships can make us less spiteful in the end, more wise even about when to give up on seeking more wisdom.

Relationships end. There’s nothing left to be gained in arguing that they should have been different. The dead were what they were, end of story.

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